My last blog post was a bit winey I know and I don't want to come off as spoiled or thinking that I am owed a Birthday. Thats not the point I was trying to make. What I was actually doing is venting and letting go of the anger I was feeling towards my hubby. Sometimes I just gotta get it out. If you want to read my last post and tell me what you think. One commenter opened my eyes to a new point of view which I greatly appreciate and got me thinking about Birthdays in general. I think our mothers should get more credit for sure for giving birth to us and raising us the best they could or we wouldn't be here at all! I know that. Anyhow I was just pondering the whole thing and yes my hubby was a real jerk but maybe I got too bent out of shape over it? Some people wouldn't put up with him at all and would have left a long time ago....me? I have seen him for all that he is and someday I just wish he could soften up and be more caring and compassionate like he used to be, if he doesn't and I die before him?.....he will know that I will be his personal poltergiest. LOL. Anyhow thats my rant for today and I am feeling a bit better now. THANKS!!!
Hi Amanda, pretty sure I'm that poster you're referring to and I now understand that you needed to vent and I'm a "fix it" type. So usually I assume someone who's complaining is looking for a solution or a way to feel better. Sometimes I inadvertently make that person feel worse by trying to "fix it". Sorry if that's what happened. It's great that you got some perspective. though. Hopefully you are generally happy with your man. And like Will said, if he's abusive to you, I hope you'll get out.
I am glad you are feeling better. I do understand you being upset. A friend of mine got married by a judge. Her honeymoon was spent in a bolwing alley with his friends. (This is one way for the loser to score)
We all have our feelings hurt on occasion, and feel the need to vent. As long as you know he loves you (and you love him), isn't that the most important thing?
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Sometimes I just gotta get it out. If you want to read my last post and tell me what you think. One commenter opened my eyes to a new point of view which I greatly appreciate and got me thinking about Birthdays in general. I think our mothers should get more credit for sure for giving birth to us and raising us the best they could or we wouldn't be here at all! I know that.
Anyhow I was just pondering the whole thing and yes my hubby was a real jerk but maybe I got too bent out of shape over it? Some people wouldn't put up with him at all and would have left a long time ago....me? I have seen him for all that he is and someday I just wish he could soften up and be more caring and compassionate like he used to be, if he doesn't and I die before him?.....he will know that I will be his personal poltergiest. LOL. Anyhow thats my rant for today and I am feeling a bit better now. THANKS!!!
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