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16
Jun/2008

Stigma...wow it does have a strong hold on some! Get over it!
Having been born and raised in Kentucky all my life, and having been a member of the 'bible belt" geographical area I have had my share of the stigmatism that is associated with the paranormal and its perplexed properties.

It never ceased to amaze me as a child growing up in this area and still doesn't to this day. It is utterly repulsive how so many people judge those who are attempting great things and making great strides in the paranormal community. We are automatically "labeled" devil worshipers or doing the work of Satan. Pleeeeese!!!!

The personal interpretation of religion and it's many writings, the generational teachings that are passed down from our previous family members are shoved down our throats it it agravates me to NO end.

Why is it that people have nothing more to do than to judge others? I live my life with an open mind, heart and loving soul. Sure I have my days, but I don't go around judging people and their beliefs. I am a firm believer in if it makes a person happy, than so be it! They don't answer to me.

I received a letter the other day, that has sparked this "bitch session," it was from my family, in particular my mother. She goes on and on about how I have never been good enough, and how this and that...and anyway, without going into a lot of the personal repetative crap and I quote, here is what she said:

"Your paranormal experiences are wrong!!! You are not supposed to go into grave yards in the middle of the night; you are supposed to let God work thru you!! Yes, you have a gift, but use it for God, not for Satan!! Do you know what divination is? It is the practice of attempting to foretell future events or discover hidden knowledge by supernatural means. God does not like this!! Yes, you have a gift!! Use it thru him!! The "Devil will seduce you and that will change you as a person!!!"

You know I strive out here in this community for great things, The Paranormal Realms' main goal is to help clients with hauntings, spread paranormal awareness and find creative means to improve paranormal unity. I haven't been in a grave yard in who knows how many years. But once again goes to show just how little interest they have taken in me and my accomplishments.

FAMILY...urgh!

Anyway this judging needs to stop! Whether personal, family or foe...worry about yourself! If your a cynical skeptic, I and many others are not doing this work to prove anything to you. If you are a non-believer we have NO interest in trying to make you a believer!

We are here pursuing something that for the most part, at least for me, has been here and with me all my life. I AM a Godly woman who just doesn't conform to the everyday "YOU MUST" believe in this or that. I question spirituality...it is my nature...I believe in a lot of things...but if one of my interests' or beliefs is something that doesn't matches yours, than be open minded enough to talk with me about it, I love a debate or intelligent conversation, but for heavens sake quit the damn judging!!!!!

Rochelle
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From: TheParanormalRealm
06/17/2008 15:22:18
Thanks everyone for your nice comments...I knew before I even vented through this blog that I am sadly enough not alone...there are many of you out there experiencing the same thing...however I am glad to see some are not and you are receiving the support you deserve.

I will continue to "plug on" in my efforts, it is what it is, and unfort. has been all my life.

Thanks for all your kind words and support..it is much appreciated...Blessings to all

Rochelle


From: FVSH_Katie
06/17/2008 14:39:47

I avoided this problem by  not telling anyone in my family what I do for a hobby! LOL! Hubby doesn't share it with his family either.  It's not that they would think we're going over to the devil, they wouldn't.  They would just think we are just all the more weirder than we actually are.  LOL!


My mom is in assisted living with Alzheimers, so she wouldn't understand it now but back in "the day" when she was still with us, I think in the long run she might have understood it.  Not agreed with it, but understood it.  My dad...if he were alive, I don't know how he would feel about it. He was pretty superstitious so it could go either way with him.  But as some of the events that led me to this little "hobby" of mine occurred in their house, maybe they might support it.  I will never know.  Oddly enough, he was a Mason for many years without us knowing about it (!) and my mom is in a Masonic assisted living facility. Talk about superstition!


 Good luck with your family and I hope they come around when they realize that you are the same as you always were and that you haven't gone over to the devil. 


 



From: lemberger
06/17/2008 08:07:51

     Yikes! I haven't run into anything like that yet.  Though my mom thinks her daughters are a little whacky, she still watches ghost hunters with us on Wednesday nights.


     Getting eyebrows raised after telling strangers what we do is much different than getting verbally beaten up by a parent. You know what you're doing and others see the positive things you've done.  Hang in there.



From: GhostOhio
06/17/2008 05:45:26
Those words from your mom had to be hard to read..hurtful even. Some people, even family never will completely understand what it is we are doing.  Stand your ground and hopefully mom will come around.  *hugs*


From: Davtrav
06/16/2008 20:39:29

I agree with you. I question spirituality to. I have seen the demise of a lot of people who hop on the spiritual boat ride just to go head long into a tidal wave that they never saw coming. Then they blame whatever on God. Which is so far from the truth of the matter but the damage is done.

What can be more paranormal than religion or spirituality? There is good things in both and there is danger in both. It is the same with studying and helping people understand the paranormal in their lives. Theres good things to it and there is bad things that sometimes happen from it. Its all an experience and that is all it is.



From: KarenMKE
06/16/2008 16:41:09

Wow...um...you're mom is...different. Special if it were.


My dad gives me a hard time about it from a biblical aspect, but definitely NOT to that extreme.


I'm a non-denominational Christian who is open to any and all ideas. How do people know for sure what's truly out there or how God really acts. Isn't that all a part of life? Asking questions?


At least she didn't say you were going to hell in a hand basket for it all.



From: Ken_Deel
06/16/2008 16:25:23

I get it too girl believe me!

I told a friend for "Client based" help teams use the key word "Deliverance" so they know exactly what you are doing.




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