ok so to make a long story short wich in my case is realy hard to do those of you who know my story or at least a little will understand but i was confused and lost and so i typed a loooonnnggg e-mail to the steve wilkos show people about my life and how fu*#ed up it is so now i have a chance to go on the steve wilkos show and confront my molester yea the best thing any one could give me but the thing is he may have ruind my life but i dont want to ruin his should i confront him yes or no?
Steve Wilco seems to be a victims advocate and I am certain that you will have a safe physical enviornment to air your issues. That being said.. NO.. I do not think you should go on national TV and confront your molester. If your molester does not react the way you think he/she should you will have the same, or more termoil than you have now. MORE if he/she in any way able to fool people who don't know him/her, and you will get flack from people who are supportive of him/her. Even the devil has a supportive cast of characters. You know what happened. If you truly need the confrontation to heal then do it in private. But don't let your molesters failure to confess or respond the way you think he/she should to change how you feel about yourself.
Okay, I have never watched the Steve Wickos Show, and this, too, is jut an oppinion. I want you to think about something. Sometimes ugly things happen in life, and you feel that you cannot move forward until you have confronted the ugliness. But, what happens when you find that this ugliness cannot be resolved through talking to your assailant? How will you be left to feel. Have you thought about the possibility that this person may not even acknowlege the incident, and, if your like me, this can be as bad as the act itself. You did nothing to instigate this. You need to seek within yourself the forgiveness for this person first. I am not saying that talking to the person will not help, just be aware of what you truelly are hoping to accomplish by this act. And, I agree that maybe national T.V. is not the best way to do this.
OK, here is my opinion and it's only an opinion. I watch Steve's show sometimes and while I think its a good thing to confront the person that hurt you I wonder why you can't do it in private. Like I said I watch his show sometimes but I wonder how people can get on TV and put all there business out there. Personally I would find a way to confront the person in another setting other than television.
There are still issues with the inboxes. I'll get on it tomorrow and see if I can't figure out what the problem is. I apologize for any unusual things that may occur during this time. Maybe we really are haunted!?
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ok so to make a long story short wich in my case is realy hard to do those of you who know my story or at least a little will understand but i was confused and lost and so i typed a loooonnnggg e-mail to the steve wilkos show people about my life and how fu*#ed up it is so now i have a chance to go on the steve wilkos show and confront my molester yea the best thing any one could give me but the thing is he may have ruind my life but i dont want to ruin his should i confront him yes or no?
