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29
Sep/2008

My latest update

by Tess

Well I wanted to stop in and just give an update as to what is going on with me.

As some of you may have noticed I changed some things on my page. Yes I did get married almost 6 months ago, but I am already for a divorce or an annulment because of many reasons.

I have also been in and out of the hospital allot these past few months for various reasons.

I am also going through some very scarey moments once again in my life. I really don't think they completely stopped. I can definitely say that dealing with the things that I am dealing with has definitely been a roller coaster ride that I wouldn't even wish on my worse enemy. I am talking about paranormal activity, but again I won't go into detail as of yet. I really don't think it is the right time to do this yet.

There was a time that I thought I was ready to talk about everything that was going on with me as far as paranormally but after much consideration I just don't think I am ready for my story to be heard yet. However, I will say that I used to think it was my apartment that everything was happening in that was my problem until I got a reality check when I moved to Minnesota for 2 months only to end up back in the same town I left, AND the same apartment. When I moved to Minnesota I was followed by the things I have been dealing with and when some things took place, it was like a hard slap in the face that it wasn't just my old apartment, it was attached to me. I have been dealing with this on my own for some time now and it has been quite difficult. Probably the hardest thing I have ever had to face.

Enough said about that for now. I will try to keep up on popping in and out as much as I am able.

Sincerely, Tess

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From: Karla

09/30/2008 07:15:00

My goodness, Tess. Gal, I'm sorry about the marriage, but it's best to find out early that it didn't work as opposed to YEARS later. I'm here for ya.

I believe someone or something just might be attached to you. My late husband seemed to follow me for about six months regardless of where I was.

Sorry to hear about the hospital visits, too. I hope everything turns around for you soon.

Karla

From: ScreaminMimi

09/29/2008 21:51:04

Tess, your life will turn around for the better. I have been dealing with a divorce from a man who was very happy with me...the problem was he was also happy with three other women. Yes, there was also physical and verbal abuse, and the refusal to embrace the paranormal to the extent that I felt as if I had to constantly "prove" myself to him--many times when the evidence was so blatant I truly was convinced that I was losing my mind. Counseling to battle depression was helpful, though he never asked me how it was going and what he could do to help--but his bi-polar disorder was a burden that I needed to follow up on, or else. I have pursued my own interests, met some amazing new people, got published, learned new skills, expanded my knowledge by communicating with the wonderful people here at IAH, and have become stronger because I accomplished so much on my own. Are you better off with him or without him? I found the answer to that question when I discovered I liked myself better when he wasn't around. For your sake, I sincerely hope that love conquers all and things will work out for you. Marriage is a wonderful institution, unfortunately for me, mine almost put me in one! Your paranormal experiences will also be heightened when your emotions run amok. Just know that we are here for you.

From: TantricKitten

09/29/2008 09:54:32

I have to agree with Mr, Hatt. Unless there's physical or sexual abuse or gross, rampant cheating going on... in which case, run and empty the bank accounts before you go... the first year of marriage is hell and it does get better.

It sounds like you've had a very rough year in general. Take some time for yourself and know that there are lots of kind people who are willing to lend a sympathetic virtual ear... and I bet there are lots of people in RL that are willing to lend an ear as well.

From: Mr_Hatt

09/29/2008 09:00:59 Tess Not really knowing your situation a little advise. The fist year of marrage is the hardest dont give up on it. As for the activity you are going through well you know you can always ask for help or advice here some of these guys are pretty good.