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Why do Spirits come back?
Even though ghosts and spirits are two different forms of energy. The ghosts roam the earth while the spirits go on to a higher level and does not roam the earth. I do strongly believe that when one is ready or close to death that one (or a few) of our loved ones who has gone before us come to us to take us to that higher level or plane. I personally have witnessed this with two of my loved ones. My grandmother who was living with me at the time had cancer. We lived on the second floor of an appartment building. She on two different times told me about her mother coming to her, appearing in the bedroom window which was on the second floor.
She told my grandmother that she came to confort her and on another time told her that her time was about to come. Another one was my father, who laid in a hospital bed after having a sever stroke. On four differnt times he too had been visited by his mother and his brother who have passed years before him. My father would lay there crying. When asked he would mumble to me what he had seen.
Being a medium, I have found that a "Spirit" when they pass that they do move on to that higher plane. But that they have the free will and or choice to revisit the earth to see their loved ones. Our love does not stop for our children, husbands, wives,etc after we pass. Our love is as strong as the day we walked this earth. So is our concearn for them and their well being.
I have also seen that many come back also becasue they have unsolved issues that must be delt with or unsloved hurts, or bondage that they must deal with in order to move on.
Even though many want to see their loved ones who have passed and its a great confort to many of us, its even more benifial for the loved one who has passed. Reason being, they must clear the air in a sense, say sorry, make sure their loved ones are ok, say sorry, resolve issues in order for them to move on to the level inwhich they should be at.
This is something that we can not do for them. This is something that they must do for themselves. Can we help them? Of course we can. We can simply let them know that is okay and whateveer issue that they may have has been rectified.
Here is another example of this happening. Remember I mentioned my father who had a stroke? In less then two weeks of his visit by his loved ones who have passsed, he too passed. Ever since his passing I personally have felt kisses on my forhead when I have had the flu, been touched and have spoken to him. I truely felt my dads presents with me. Then my mother called me about a reacuring dream she was having about my father.
Now my mother and father have been divorced for over 23 years at his passing. She told me about her dream in detail. My father said that he felt lost,he didn't know where he was, he kept saying that he wanted the kids to know that he was sorry becasue he didn't know that he was forgetting some of his medications he was taking. When hearing this, it broke my heart. The words of sorry and I don't know where I am hurt so badly.
I wanted my father to have peace. After hanging up with my mother these words went over and over in my head. I couldn't imagine my father feeling that way. My father and I were very close and I know I was being selfish for wanting him there with me even after his passing.
I knew it was time for me to let him go. I went in my room where I do most of my meditation, work and I lite a candle. I begain to meditate and I started to feel my fathers presence. I felt his anguish, his confusion. I begain to cry feeling this. I told him I was being selfish wanting him to stay here but that it was basically time for him to go to the next level that he must do. I have to admit, I told him that I didn't want him too but that he had too.
It was like he died all over to me again. But after I spoken with him and released him I felt the weight of his hurt, bondage release and the weight was lifted. He went! Since then I have not felt him again. I was being selfish. I just went threw a divorce, my dad in life was my best friend and the one I leaned on.I was being selfish. But I have peace knowing that he has peace.
My father came, we spoke and he said sorry not only to my mother but also to me. He released him self to move on. Something that our loved ones must do. Can we help? Yes, we can except their appology for anything that might have happened in the past.
We can encourage them, but in the final work must be done by them, the spirit.
Now for us... We as the living build so much hurt up. We hold onto the past. It not only in life but after, stops us from growing. None of us are promised a tomorrow, we need to rectify our differences with loved ones now. So that when tomorrow does come we are not held from moving on.
If you have have the chance to communitcate with a loved one who has passed be bessed. Know that when a person goes they are still the person in spirit as in life. They still have their feelings, regrets and hurts. But the difference is, they have come to a place that they see their wrongs and they NEED to rectify them.
This is the reason they become "Earth Bound Spirits" .
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