Does anyone think that what one's personality is like in life affects whether or not one becomes a spirit in death? I'm wondering if people who are introverts, who are shy, and fearful of people don't become ghosts because they would rather not be around the living after death? Could it be more likely that those who sought out companionship in life would seek it out after death?
I know its hard for me to make friend. I don't avoid people, but I don't go out of my way to meet people either and when I do meet someone, I have no idea how to make a friendship grow. I've never learned how to make friends, and I think that goes back to having to move around so much as a child. What's the sense in making a friend when they will just move once you know them well.
I guess I won't come back as a ghost if my theory is right.
So, what do you think?