What do you think about the guy described below (his behavior)? Would you date him, or recommend dating him?:
I have a friend I’ll call Jesse. She's a single mom who is doing a great job raising three young kids. She's also a successful businesswoman. She's tired and could use adult companionship and support. She misses having a man around and has skin hunger from years of going to bed alone.
She just told me she met a lady who happens to be a "friend of a friend" (ironically, at a wedding). She and Jesse spoke briefly. After learning that Jesse is a single mom, she recommend Jesse check out a "nice guy" she knows. So Jesse offered the lady her business card - no pic displayed on it - to pass along to the mystery guy in case he feels like calling to chat.
Two days later an unusually large bouquet of flowers (dozens of them) plus an "enormous" fruit basket, is delivered to her home. It's from the mystery guy.
(Just FYI: Jesse's work number and home address are both on the business card. So mystery guy didn’t go on any weird hunt for her address.)
Also, later that day Jesse gets a call from the guy at work. She's busy so they speak briefly. In response to her inquiry about what he does for a living, he tells her he works in the entertainment business; film. He seems to avoid giving her any specific business title when pressed for it. In addition he seems evasive when asked to describe the basic nature of his work.
Based on the limited info in Jesse's story above, would you detect any potential yellow or red flags in the guy's behavior as a prospective date? ... I have my opinion but I'd like to see how you assess this situation.